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Gender: Female Location: England Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: May 7, 2011 Answers: 111 Last Update: January 8, 2013 Visitors: 8588
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Well, I'm Male-16. I have never really had a girlfriend. School just started. I get tired of seeing guys and their girlfriends on the bus or in the halls. Finding a girl that actually likes me seems to be near impossible. What is it? I see some of the idiots with their girlfriends and think, "Why the hell....?" I mean there's like no girls interested in me. Yet these guys who act tough and are all cocky and think they're invincible have girlfriends. I kind of have no life, but I get good grades and come up with things that are outside the box. Its like nobody can see what I'm capable of and what know. It is so annoying when I talk to a girl and she just doesn't know what I'm talking about. It seems nowadays girls are obsessed with texting, TV shows, phones, and useless stuff like that. I rarely ever watch TV, and I rarely carry my phone. I like talking about bigger things. Like conspiracy theories, science, spiritual stuff, politics, etc. All the girls I meet don't care about any of that.I rarlyMeet smart grl (link)
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Ok sweety, to be blunt here, you're not like the boys at your school and the girls you know don't represent the entire female population.
And here's a secret theres a huge gap between 16 and the early 20's, when a girls 16 she wants the popular bad-boy type to live the life of the girls on tv, but in a few years time, you'll be so high up the social ladder the very same girls will be wishing they paid you attention, and you will be meeting smart girls with the same interests at college/university, you just have to put yourself out there.
My final little piece of advice is this, I just turned 19 and until earlier this year I had never had a boyfriend/kiss/hug or anything like that, it's not rare and nothing to be ashamed of, 16 is an age to have fun with friends, not be worrying about relationships, trust me at that age it's just not worth it, wait to meet the right girl and keep being you until you find her and remember, she doesn't have to be smart like you want, she could like you for you and be nothing like you expect, just be open minded to people and be friendly and if they ask you about your interests tell them little things, rather than a whole novel :) the more these girls talk to you the more they'll like you. be patient, everything happens for a reason after all ;)
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Wow, thank you. This and tropical's answer are the one of the most helpful answers I've gotten from this site :)
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