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i am 18 years old,my girlfriend is 16... we have been together for 9 months now... on july 27th we decided to start having unprotected sex..since then we have had sex on Aug 4th,22nd,26th and now sept 5th and 6th ... she found out she was pergnant last month.. and she is in denials of keeping the baby ratherless telling her mom.. i love her soo much but i really won't like her to kill the baby.. even if its now forming... what should we do... (link)
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aw no :( talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about her and what you want with her. if she doesnt want the baby and has an abortion then it will help you in a way. if you have the baby then it will make life very hard for you and it will be hard working on your career while raising a child. also it might be a hard life for the baby having young parents. also a baby can ruin relationships and you dont want to lose her do you? it might be really hard as abortions are practically killing babies and im totally against them but if its her choice and she still wants to do it after talking about it to you then its for the best i guess. you can also see it though as a miracle from god and maybe you can convince her to keep the baby. if she still is in denial about keeping the baby then just remember that if you do love her like you say you do then let her choose as it is her body and she is the pregnant one. there is still the future and im sure you guys wil still be together when you are older. get your life on track with her first then have a baby.
hope i helped and didnt offend :)
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