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I'm a christiam, and I am pretty good. Like, I've NEVER smoked or drank, neeever had sex, or even dated/kissed a guy yet! And of course I'm straight. I'm known as the inocent one in my group of friends, the one everyone knows to shut up about that type of stuff around.
Okies so, I like to read some manga. (Japanese comics) I go to this website oniline and it's a place where you can read free manga scans. Of course there's some adult/mature manga on thissite. Sometimes I get some...Urges... (I think you know what I mean.) Sooo, I look up some of that adult stuff. Like, I love romantic stories. So whn I get those... Urges... I look up adult romance stories. So it's love-dovey love story, but it shows some nudity and, there are some sex scenes. But, and I am ashaamed to admit this, I look up yaoi sometimes when the... urges..., get really bad. (Yaoi is'guy on guy') There are some pretty hard core sex scenes and sometimes I can't help myself... Is this wrong? I feel so guilty afterwards. I don't masterbate or anything, I just look that stuff up every ONCE in a WHILE. So, am I being wrong? (link)
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You're young so you don't know yet that religion is little more than a highfalutin hustle/scam. The stuff any church tells you about sex is horsesh*t. There is absolutely nothing wrong with reading what you are online nor is there anything wrong with masturbation. If you get urges then take care of them with your fingers.
However, like all things in life, you have to have a sense of proportion about it. Almost all porn is fiction and rather cartoonish (actually, almost all of it is either gross, stupid or a yawn) at that. So you have to compartmentalize what are your fantasies from what goes on in real life. One can have relatively outrageous fantasies and still have a satisfying vanilla sex life if all the right elements are in place. It just depends on the people involved
It might interest you to know that per capita the largest population of practitioners of BDSM are in the bible belt, as are the worst divorce, incest and teenage pregnancy rates.
Look, you get one time in this life. So take control of your body and life and determine what makes you happy and go after it without letting others sabotage you, especially secret pedos in black frocks (pastors, preachers, etc). Make your default source for information the reality based world and not that rooted in myth and superstition.
Finally, since you read gay manga, and that's cool, whatever turns you on, if you have questions about your sexuality you might want to check out http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/index.php
Good luck and have fun.
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