I find myself with a lot of questions all the time. And so I figured I can't be the only one out there that is like that. I have had a lot of experiences and I hope that they come in handy when answering your questions :) I promise not to judge and to give the advice asked for. REMEMBER: everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end
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I always over-think things. I always feel like I need to be on top when it comes to school. If I don't get A's or B's, but more so A's, I panic. I cry. If I do bad in a class, I feel like a loser. I feel like I'm not worth anything. I haven't had good luck in jobs. But, I've worked at these random offices and couldn't handle the work-load with school and all my other priorities. I was working close to 30 hours a week. I start working at school tomorrow and I'm so excited that I'll be at school. I've been looking for a job at school for 2 years! And it's only 15 hours a week. So, I can handle my classes and activities and enjoy my college years... just with a little money in my pocket. But, I'm scared because I've just over-thought it. I want to be a good employee. If you can send me any advice on how to stop over-thinking and just be proud of my accomplishments, please let me know.
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My boyfriend had the same problem with over analyzing everything! So I hope I can help you here :) Be confident in everything you do. Don't feel silly for wanting good marks. Don't feel like a loser because you stress out and can't handle a million and one things at once. You're only in college. Getting a job is great but if you can't find one, or it's too much for you, that is OKAY! You can't be expected to do everything. If you don't get and A or a B. Don't fret. Breathe and stay calm and look at what you can do to improve your grades the next time around. People mess up. Make mistakes. You are only human. Just remember that real failure is not trying again when you don't succeed. Keep going. Everything happens for a reason and it will all work out in the end. God works in mysterious way. You just gotta learn to have faith in that :) I hope I helped you even just a little :) If you need any more advice my column is always open!
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thank you. I needed to hear that. Sometimes, you just have to put things in God's hands. :) Thank you for the reminder
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