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(i think i lost the first post) maybe he led me on but i liked the feeling because i am super conservative 33 yr old girl and now i fell inlove with him... do guys tell the truth? should i trust him or my gut feeling because i feel that i love him more than i do and i find it unfair.i thik he still sees other girls but he denies it.
so many mixed signals and i have committment and trust issues. how do i know what do i like? or do i just like the feeling of being in love ...? will this relationship go anywhere or am i just hanging on to the feeling? so confused! (link)
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It really depends on the guy. You certainly do sound confused. I think your best and most sane option is to talk to a friend you trust who knows the both of you. Tell your friend how you're feeling, what your concerns are, and explain it just like you did here. Perhaps a trustworthy friend who knows you both can give you a better, more honest perspective on where you stand with him and what kind of guy he is - if you are being crazy or if your instincts are right. The key is to let it be someone you trust. And then don't ignore what they say just because it may be something you don't want to hear. Good luck.
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thank you so much for the time in reading and giving me a grounded advice. i will try to open up a conversation when we meet up..i feel i dont deserve the stress so am thinking of really letting this go and maybe be just good friends like we were in the first place. have a good day!
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