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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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Hey, I don't know if you remember me 'cause its been a loong time but I'm the one who asked this question: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=596298&sid=dd97b119605b55b0568b86c668e80556
Um so, I don't feel like killing myself now.. I admit that was a little bit dramatic but I just feel like its hopeless :/ I kinda get invited to places at times but I can sense that not many girls want me around.. and like I said before, I'm not much of a flirt and the popular girls bitch about me to the guys so I can't be friends with them either.. So now I have like NO friends. And I used to be a straight-A student but now I keep thinking about how I look, how I have no friends and how all the people at school treat me and my grades are dropping =( Its not like I'm failing but I just don't get top marks anymore. And the most popular girl, well, she is topping now.. thought its kinda 'cause she copies. But still.. my life is like in ruins right now.. so help? -.-"
Of course I remember you :) Sounds like you need to find a new identity. Something you can do where the opinions of others doesn't matter. Why not find a hobby you find yourself putting your whole soul into. Some people like to write, some like to paint, play an instrument such as guitar or piano, writing lyrics helps, or even simple things such as cooking or scrap booking. You need to find one thing you are completely comfortable with, and defines you for who you are. For example, my classical guitar defines myself. When I start playing, it doesn't matter what the world thinks of me because I know I am good and I am doing something I completely love. Once you find that something you can't live without, you will eventually see the guys being attracted to you, the girls being jealous of you, and see that the world can flip the other way.
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(Rating: 5) Yeah, I actually know my passion.. its singing :D And sometimes I write songs about how I feel, but not often. Even some of the girls that hate me have told me I sing well :) But the problem is I live in India and here, well there aren't any vocal trainers. I think I want to be a singer when I grow up.. someone like Taylor Swift, or Katy Perry maybe.. but its SO not possible if I live here =( I thought maybe I could put up videos on YouTube but I'm afraid I don't look that pretty =\ And everyone who's popular on YouTube for their music covers are SO hot! Like Christina Grimmie.. And when I tell some of my friends I want to be a singer, they kinda laugh at me :( What do I do? Btw, if you feel like I'm asking you too many questions you can just tell me, I don't want to be clingy or anything :P And one last thing, I just saw your picture and I think you look veryy pretty! :)