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I dont know what to do. Im only 14 and ive been in a relationship with this boy for a year, on and off now, and he's been talking about us having a child. Ive been really thinking about this and I really feel like Im ready for something like this. I know its not exactly a walk in the park bringing up a child and that it isnt something i can just forget about if i get fed up of the responsibilities. I do want to have a child with him now but honestly im not sure if I should. I saw what you said to some girls question and just thought youd be able to help. Please reply, Im not sure who else to ask.
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I agree with others on this your are still a child your self, I thought I was ready every time i fell pregnant and i tell you now i wasnt, i was 13/14 when i first fell pregnant, it has messed my life up big time having kids young is not easy it means you have to give things up that you want to be able to provide for your child. I lost alot of friends when i fell pregnant, they stuck by me till i had the baby and until my son started walking they was there for me then the disappeared. i only had the onr true friend who stuck by me and is now my kids god mother. My family didnt like it one bit and it caused alot of problems at home too.
so what i am saying is think about what you will be loosing by having a kid at a young age. I would suggest you wait until you are in a stable relationship
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THANK YOU! You helped save me from the WORST decision of my life! He was 18 and getting with 4 other girls I know of. He said he would only love ME forever but he was trying to get all of us pregnant at the same time. He got two girls pregnant so far that I heard of and one girl has TWO babies by him! This is the second guy I dated that wanted me to have his baby and the second guy who was busy with a whole bunch of other girls at the same time! LAST BLACK GUY I DATE EVER!
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