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Location: California
Age: 20
Member Since: June 12, 2010
Answers: 65
Last Update: September 16, 2012
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right, im 17 and im struggling right now with a sticky situation i seem really confused with my love life, like i dont know what i want right now.
i've dated this guy for over a year and it was the best but around november last year he ended it then he came running back to me , so i decided alright il give him a chance but hmmm i went on holiday right and when i came back he kept saying we were gonna get together but now its been 7 months and im tired of waiting i still have feelings for him & such but i got to the point where i cant take it anymore. he wanted to see me but i rejected him ,
another thing is that i've known this other guy for quite some time but recently we started talking alot and i really like speaking to him he always compliments me , hes nice we have good convos and well thats something me and my ex dont have , he never compliments me hes done things to me that has made me hate him so much but yet i always end up forgiving him and giving him a chance , around febuary he started dating this girl while he was telling me he wanted to be with me and ah i dont know what to do , he left her for me but i cant forget what he done :( plus he also had the cheek to tell me he had sex with this other girl but how it meant nothing..i understand i appreciate his honesty but it hurt alot cause even though we weren't together it killed me inside...
sometimes i feel to move on from him but I CANTT i dont know what stops me from moving on i wanna get over him but i have feelings.
However im afraid im gonna end up falling for this other guy, the way he speaks is so different im SOOO CONFUSED :(
i thought i would be happy to get back with my ex one day but the past helps me recognise his errors too.
please help me im really on the urge to losing it ;/ :( pleaseeee ! (link)
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I been in the same boat you been in. I was with my ex for a while and after we broke up, our relationship was on and off. He always send me mix signals. And one day I was sure we was going to get back together, but no we never did. All he ever does is hurt me all the time. I was emotionally broken. I got over my ex. I had to let him go, later on. I'm 20 now. My ex was soooo high school. I have a boyfriend now, who I love, who lights up my day, who treats me like a princess. Give this other guy a chance, but take things slow with him. Hope this help. You need to get over your ex because he's the one who hurt you so much. Sometimes enough is just enough. You deserve better.
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thankyou so much, i know what you mean its the same as us. He ended it and from then on he keeps promising me that we were gonna get together so it kept bringing my hopes up and waiting for him.
but now its gone to the point where i want something different , im 17 and this new guy hes 20 theres nothing wrong with that we have good convos and such its just im afraid to be with someone and get hurt again :(
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