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Hey, my name is Sadie and i need help with life! i am 13 turning 14 and who knew that this age would be so drama felled? Any ways, i am at my moms house for the summer and i have no one to talk to. That is why i joined this site. i have to say this site has helped me more then i thought i would.

I have a boyfriend and he is my life right now! sometimes he gets on my nerves but at the end of the day i think about how much i care about him and everything just doesn't madder anymore. We have been dating off and on for about 5 or 6 months now. we just had our very first fight a few weeks ago. I was so upset and sad when this happened. i stopped answering his calls and texts that day. i know he cares about me because he called and apologize soon after we had the fight. i try not to think about him to much because were 500 miles away from each other right now. we haven't seen each other over a month:(

I love to try and help people so if u need help feel free to ask me anything:)

i love listening to music! my favorite song right now is "i wish by the secret handshake!"

I love to hang out with friends!!:) 98% of the time i'm with my friends hanging out having a blast!!

I am a straight A student!!:) i am very proud of my self(:

i CAN'T forget i loooooove taking pictures!

i am such a happy person:) nothing can get me down.
i think drama is stupid and i try and stay out of it.

PLEASE ASK ME A QUESTION I WILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU WITH ANYTHING AND EVERY THING:)

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18/f

So me and my ex-boyfriend broke up twice and got back together twice. The relationship we have is kind of complicated. He broke up with me I guess because of stress and he wasn't able to handle it very well-school's tuition, job, moving out, and family errands. He saw me as a distraction, and broke up with me. Even though we broke up, we still talk to each other. Still tell eachother "i love you" and we still act like a coupe. Not as affectionate, but still as a couple. Kisses now and then, cuddling, etc. We're both really stubborn people, and I have to admit that I'm more stubborn than he is. I just won't give up. A lot of people call me stupid, but I'm the type of person that thinks, "good things come for those who wait" and "hard work pays off." I use these quotes for everything not just for relationships.

The thing is, I don't want to give up. I know where I stand. So is there a way to have him think that I'm not a distraction? Is there a way I can get him back?

in my opinion it sounds like he still likes/love you. if he thinks your a distraction then dont be one. if hes going through a lot then offer to help him with whatever can be helped with just do little things to make things easier. this might make since but it sounds like you guys are perfect for each other, but it seems like that he/ you are not ready to be committed to the relationship. hope ive helped! good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! I wish that he would see that as well. =T
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