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Basically, I have had a facebook stalker for a good 4 months. This person would send me flirty messages, and bother me. Finally, last night they are on chat. I begin mind fucking them into telling me who it is. Things like, im so excited to know, etc. He says -


Me:do you like me or whats going on

9 hours agoPete Psa i do like you but dont wnt a relationship im more for friendly encounters i thought maybe you would want to have some fun online thought maybe you get bored sometimes

9 hours ago ME wow thats not thinking very highly of me

thats just a tiny fragment.



It continues until I find out just who it is. It is my best friend's boyfriend of three years/ one of my very good friends/ my ex's best friend. I asked him how long he has felt like this, he said he cant put a number on it. Long story short, I already lost one of our homies after he came on to me in the backseat of the car my boy at the time was driving, so I told "pete" that im not interested, and if he thinks so highly of me he should have a little respect and say something instead of jump to the busisness. I told him I am not trash, and am not sure if I will be keeping this from my bestfriend.


i have known him much longer than his girlfriend, but i am very great friends with her. ive already lied for him once. she has helped me through SO much in the passed year, i mean really this has been a very rough time lately and she is ALWAYS there. she is the only person i can count on, and i dont think i can look at her again if i keep this secret.

but i also really would rather not hurt her, they are like a married couple and have been together for 3 years and he really is the perfect guy in a sense. i just dont know whats more important, her being happy with him or her knowing how he feels about me.

Dear "Bestfriends boyfriend, being a creep",

You have gotten great advice so far. If he is flirting with you, and involved with another woman, he is not perfect, or in love with the other woman.

If he does this to her, he will do this to others. I was with a man for ten years, then I found out about his 'online adventures' that eventually led to hook-ups.

Save her now, before she spends another 7 years of her life on him and ends up having children with him. Children do not need a dad like him. He does not respect her, and he has disrespected you.

He is relying on you to keep quiet. You have once before. So he figures his girlfriend will never know since you can keep his secrets.

Be honest with everyone involved. Yourself included. Always treat those around you the way you would want to be treated. What would you have one of your girls do if the shoe was on the other foot?

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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(Rating: 5) I did tell her right away, they took a hiatus, and are back together. He had to delete me from all contacts and we are never allowed in the same room. She and I remain very good friends, yet we barely get to see each other. I definitely felt 100% better after I told her and that's all that matters.
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