Member Since: July 4, 2011
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Last Update: July 13, 2011
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My best friend, has another group of friends she hangs out with, without me, which is FINE. But, what I don't like, is if one of them is like alone/not doing anything, she will be like "can so and so join us" and i want to be like no. she can't. you don't include me, why should i be nice enough to include her?
what do you think? should i say something? pretty soon she'll be going to college at the end of summer. but its just irriatating, and all my other friends HATE her. (link)
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I had a similar problem. That really annoyed me too, so I understand how you are hurt. I asked my friend about it and she said she was trying to make new friends and include other people and meet other people, too. Her whole answer made me even more mad, but I realized that in her mind she was just trying to be nice and didn't realize what she was doing. We didn't stay very close after that because we didn't think the same way. She couldn't really understand how that upset me, and so it was hard for me to deal with it. You might not be able to make her understand if you tell her, so be prepared to have to back off.
As to what your other friends think about her, their opinions on her don't matter so much in the situation. Sometimes the best people are judged or misunderstood. Stick to your own judgement.
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thanks, i've decided she isn't worth being friends with. We both had a friend that did the same things to us, and she was so mad and now she is doing it to me, & she is very sneaky, its just not worth, especially since we are both going our seperate ways soon
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