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Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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Last Friday I went to a party and met this boy. From the moment we met we really clicked. He was showing me off to all of his friends and kind of overdoing it with the compliments. I am not sure if it's part of his game or he really meant it. Anyway we ended up sleeping at the party together. I barely got any sleep because we were talking and kissing all night. He attempted more and would apologize when I rejected him yet still attempted more once a decent amount of time had went by. He was somewhat cocky about himself stating how I definitely wanted him and whatnot which made me want him even less. After our night of kind of cute fun he took me home. He has been trying to hang out since but I am not sure if it's a good idea. I really clicked with him and he said we clicked but then again, he seemed to be using every line in the book. I guess what I'm trying to say is being the messed up girl I am the lines got me along with his good looks and I'm wondering what to do. Should I give him a chance? Or should I just write him off as a player and ignore his texts from now on?

Move on unless he is a lot of fun to hang out with once in awhile and that is all you are looking for. However, if a relationship is what you are seeking MOVE ON! If he is cocky there is a reason. He is insecure in himself and if he is so focused on himself what time does he have to spend on you. In a relationship you should feel as if he is treating you like a queen. He clearly stepped past that when he didn't let up on moving too quickly. You already gave him a sign that you were not interested in progressing sexually at this point so he should have repected you enough to allow you to make the next move forward.

Hope this helps you out.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. I'm sick of my friends sugar coating. This is exactly what I needed to hear. :)
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