- hi, everyone. i'm kay1350. i love giving advice to my family as well as friends. you do not have to use my advice if you choose not to. i just hope my advice can help . thanks .
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My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago and we recently started talking again. We started texting again and we were friendly with one another. Then he became flirty and honestly, whenever we held those flirty conversations, those lasted the longest. He asked me if I wanted to continue being that way with him and I decided to test it and see if he had feelings for me and he told me that he has learned to control his feelings. Clearly that meant he's over me, or that he's trying very hard to. I don't know why he would ask me to do something like this. We did establish that we are very comfortable with one another but I only agreed because I wanted to see how far it would go. He was my first boyfriend and the only guy I've ever been really physical with and because we have broken up with issues, I'm not sure if I can be "friends with benefits" with him, but he seems to be completely fine. What does this mean? Oh, when we first started talking again, he did apologize for some of the stuff that happened in our relationship. But one of the last things we said to one other was that I didnt want to go on with the "benefits" part because I didn't want it hindering my feelings I would have for anyone else. (link)
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- most likely, if you two are still flirting, and texting well most likely he still has feelings for you. he might not won't to date again just yet but give it time and see what happens. he might not want to go through the samething again that you two went through before. there's really not a straight foward answer to this situatioon because it could be many other answers as well, the best way to see is to ask him how does he feel about you. there still might be feelings there or there may not be. just try and ask him. i hope this advice is useful for you, ii apologize if it does not. good luck.
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thanks but i already told him im not interested in friends with benefits. mainly because I dont see a future with him.
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