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ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. were both 17 we go to the same schoool. He just recently started working alot and i dont get to talk to him and i find my self cryinggg because i hate change and im used to talking to him 24/7 and i dont want to be clingy and i keep crying cuz i feel like he doesnt care and idk what to do anymore. i feel really depressed. please help me.

Change can be hard, if you're scared of it.

And it kind of sounds like to me, that you're afraid of something bigger, that you see any change in your relationship/life as a bad thing. Its not. As long as he can create a healthy balance between time with you and his job, then he's not doing anything wrong, he's just living his life, with you, while doing something important.

If he's ignoring you and spending all his time doing something else, then you can complain, but until then, I would just say find something to do, while he's doing that. Are you social? Go out! Have a friend over. Read a book. Volunteer. Work, if you're not.

Don't stress. Nothings changed, you're loved, but everybodys got responsabilities. ^-^

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