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I'm a 13 yearold girl and I hear about people just a year older than me sucking guys dicks and having sex and stuff but I think that oral sex is disgusting. is that normal? I'm not a lesbian I just think that's gross. and should girls shave there down there hair? you all probably think "what is she talking about, she's 13?" but I want to no if I should. It would help if I got advice from girls and guys. and how old were you guys when you lost your virginity? any advice helps. Thanks (:

For the record: I'm a 26 year old girl :)

I'm gonna tell you the same things I told my little sister (who's now 19), or would have told her, had she asked the same questions you did.

- I'd say yes, it's normal; I felt the same way when I was your age.

- Shaving is entirely up to you (and don't believe anyone who tells you different!) I don't think you need to worry about it yet. However, I started shaving when I was a few years younger than you, because I was a competitive swimmer... it's really your choice. If you're comfortable with not shaving, then don't! Either way, be careful :)

- I was 16 1/2 when I lost my virginity. That probably sounds pretty old, but at the time, I was only the second girl in my group of friends (we're talking 20+ girls here) who'd had sex. I waited until I was ready, and until I was with someone I was comfortable with and trusted. I would've waited longer, if necessary!

Good luck, don't stress, and try not to care too much what other people think - it's what YOU think that matters.

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