Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 16
Member Since: April 24, 2011
Answers: 47
Last Update: April 27, 2011
Visitors: 2662
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Ok so me and my boyfriend had an amazing easter together. He invited me to his family reunion and i got to meet all of them for the first time. It was great I loved it. Then we had to leave because there was a tornado. And I was scared because we were driving through it. Then I felt save with him. He finally dropped me home.
Then the next day he talks to this girl on facebook. I get mad because I thought he loved me. I know it was stupid I was just a little mad though. We were going to hang out Tuesday since I had work on Monday. Then he tells this other girl about me and how I overreacted about it. So she's like I'm gonna piss her off and write on your wall and flirt with you. And he was ok with that because he didn't stop her. Then I get home and read it and I get so mad. I couldn't control my anger. He was telling me I had anger issues. I told him I was mad at him because he didn't need to make me madder than I already was.
Then I said I'm gonna block you. He didn't want me to block him. Then I ignored him for 2 hours. He finally talked to me and said there was nothing going on between the two girls. He loves me. And the thing that really pissed me off was he's like "I love that you care about it" and I said I don't fu*cking care about you anymore. He got mad and I dissed him more. Then he's like Goodbye, I'll miss you so much.
I didn't respond because I thought it wasn't real.
It's been 2 days straight. He blocked me on facebook, on skype, deleted my number (one of my friends told me that) and he just hasn't talked to me.
I know it's both of our faults. I know he was sick of the relationship. I know it's over between us. That was just the stupidest way to end it over a text.
I'm really strong about it because I've been hanging out with my friends and trying to move on because I want to he's a bad guy for me. He unblocked me on facebook today but we're not friends.
I know he wants nothing to do with me but I really miss him. I wish it didn't have to end...especially this way...
What do I do? I know I have to move on but I love him so much, I can't stand life without him. It's hard. I was with him for almost 2 years I want to be in a relationship with someone who really loves me. Because he never came back :'(
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Do you want to still be with this guy or move on? I understand that you two have been together for a while but if he isn't treating you like the princess you are then move on. You as a females should not settle for less in a relationship, have high standards and find someone that meet those standards. Yes, he was wrong for upsetting you more but you where totally wrong by how you came at him. Two wrongs doesn't make a right. You need to set aside your differences and call him or set up a date to meet so you two can talk about what happened and where you two want to go from there. Maybe you guys can be close friends because 2yrs is too much to just throw away. For now if you are trying to get over the relationship just take time out for yourself. Don't indulge in another relationship because the timing is not right. Wait a few months or so until you are able to say i love you as a friend and i have love for you but I'm not in love with you anymore. You deserve the best so remember that and if he wasn't giving you that then go find someone else who will. I encountered the same situation but mine was 4yrs and i had to move on now I'm happy it took a while but i go through it and so can you.
Good Luck!
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I really want to move on because I know this guy isn't right for me but I love him so much, and I know he loved me. But I know the right thing is to move on. It will be hard since we've been together so long. I don't want to be friends with him. But I think it's best if we go our separate ways. Thanks :)
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