Member Since: April 12, 2011
Answers: 6
Last Update: April 13, 2011
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I was swimming at an indoor pool last week on vacation. My friend thought it would be funny to push me in but she didnt do it right and I hit the edge and broke my back and now I am in a wheel chair and cant walk for a while til after a few years (if that) of therapy. So im stuck with two things...number one, I am so scared and mad because i am super athletic and now i cant even walk!! number two, my friend cries all the time and wont leave her home cause she feels so terrible and bad about what she has done. I was SOO mad at her for a while because if it wasnt for her, i wouldnt be this way. However, i have to forgive her but she is so afraid to see me. She wont answer my calls or let me see her in person because she will break down if she sees me in the chair! I want to tell her its ok and i know she didnt mean to and still hang out ans stuff but were not speaking right now and shes my best friend. Ive even tried to talk to her parents but she told them not to talk to me either. Were best friends and i need her more now than ever so what should i do? (link)
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Wow, you are an amazing friend because I would never my best friend if she paralyzes me. My thinking is that she feels guilty and everytime she sees you; a flashback of what she did comes to mind. I just don't understand why is she avoiding you because she paralyzed you and you could have sued her and you didn't...She's ridiculous. Why would she leave you when you needed her the most...You need to let her know.
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Well I am getting upset towards her being this way. I already let her know all that too. Oh well
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