I've crammed a lot of experience into my 32 years, it should be available to people.
E-mail: dshannon420@gmail.com
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Location: Denver
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Age: 32
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Almost 15/F Guy is 20/M...
I've been talking to a guy online and he's from a different country. I like meeting new people, but at first he came off really strong.
He would call me, and text me, and comment on my pictures on facebook, which really was uncomfortable.
I texted him back and told him that he was being stalker-ish, at that time, he backed off and we became sorta "civil".
I have trust issues with guys, A LOT of trust issues, and I can't find myself to trust this guy much, but I am still talking to him.
He acts like he's met be before, and it's not freaky, I'm only curious. He asked me if he could call me sweetie, and I didn't really care, so I told him sure. Sometimes he asks me if I missed him when we don't talk and we'll have in depth conversations, which is nice because my guy best friend doesn't know half the stuff about me that this guy is guessing about.
It is nice to have someone to talk to that really gets me.
Anyways, how should I tell him to "back off" nicely? I don't want him to say sorry, I just want him to know that.....I don't know how to explain it. Maybe that: I don't understand why he is getting so close to me and saying things to me like that. (link)
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The huge answer says it all. I will just add that as life goes on you will be in this position again and again. You need to learn to grow some balls and to hell with if "it sounds mean". At your age four out every five guys your age are going to try the same shit. A twenty year old has no business even communicating with you. You will find that exercising your backbone can feel very liberating and will prepare you for a world where the majority of people especially men, do NOT have your best interests at heart.
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