Member Since: April 13, 2011
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Last Update: April 23, 2011
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Almost 15/F Guy is 20/M...
I've been talking to a guy online and he's from a different country. I like meeting new people, but at first he came off really strong.
He would call me, and text me, and comment on my pictures on facebook, which really was uncomfortable.
I texted him back and told him that he was being stalker-ish, at that time, he backed off and we became sorta "civil".
I have trust issues with guys, A LOT of trust issues, and I can't find myself to trust this guy much, but I am still talking to him.
He acts like he's met be before, and it's not freaky, I'm only curious. He asked me if he could call me sweetie, and I didn't really care, so I told him sure. Sometimes he asks me if I missed him when we don't talk and we'll have in depth conversations, which is nice because my guy best friend doesn't know half the stuff about me that this guy is guessing about.
It is nice to have someone to talk to that really gets me.
Anyways, how should I tell him to "back off" nicely? I don't want him to say sorry, I just want him to know that.....I don't know how to explain it. Maybe that: I don't understand why he is getting so close to me and saying things to me like that. (link)
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It is quite obvious that this guy likes you. And I almost had that same experience recently that I am still dealing with now. My advice is that you should tell him that you both are just friends (unless you want something more than that) and nothing more. Maybe you should tell him some of the great things he has done for you to ease up the tension then tell him how awesome it is being his friend to send him the hint that you only want friendship.
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Thank you! Exactly what I wanted to here. I didn't want to here that "I should stop talking to him" i did what you said, and he completely understands, though he was a little hurt that I jumped to conclusions like i did. :/ but thanks!
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