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So it's been a month now since I broke up with my ex bf. I have a new bf and he sees pictures of me and my ex on his facebook all the time ...it kinda bothers him...no wait it really bothers him and he asked me why my ex has those pictures up still and I told him I don't know. Well last night my ex text me about something I don't remember and I asked him to put the pictures down. He told me that he wouldn't and I quote "I don't care for your relationsips these are my pictures and I want to remember what we had" I don't care what he does in his private home but I just don't want to see pictures of us on facebook like it doesn't look cool. I don't know why he's acting like this, what can I do to have him at least put them in a private file or something?
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well since it's only been a month and you already moved on, it's obvious that it would be hard for you ex bf to move on he's still not over you and well you can't blame him for that, if you want him to remove your pictures you need to tell him personally:

make sure that you don't give false hope as to any reconciliation with him in the future

assure him that this just wasn't meant to be and theres somebody better out there that you're not the right girl for him and it's okay to move on

ask politely that he remove these pictures as you won't be getting back with him and it would ruin his chances of getting another girlfriend as girls wont want somebody thats hung up on their ex

lastly you have to speak to your current boyfriend and tell him that he has to understand that it's hard for your ex because it's only been a month let him know that you're with him now and thats all that matters

hope that helps if you have anymore questions feel free to ask me, best of luck


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Thanks you didnt insult me like this other adviser did. Um I'm just gonna cope with it because me and my ne bf are gonna have a baby.




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