Hello Everyone here to give the best advice I can or just listern...
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18/f. My boyfriend and I are starting to think about sex. We have been dating 7 months and are in love. This is a question about preventing pregnancies, so please don't lecture me on "saving my virginity" because I already had sex once and it's what I want. I do realize the consequences. Getting pregnant and STI's. But my boyfriend and I have agreed that we are going to be safe and careful.
Here's my question
Ive never had birth control before. The first time we had sex we used a spermicidal condom and a few days after that I saw an article about teen pregnancies in a magazine and in a tv show. I started to freak out and get really scared but he didn't cum in me and also he wasn't deep. Only like 2 inches. Do you think its possible for me to get pregnant if he did that?
Anyways, after my freak out we had a talk and decided I should get birth control. But heres the catch, my parents can't find out. And also I have no idea where to get any. Do I have to take exams in order to get some birth control?
Last question. Do you think it's safe to have sex without the pill? Like if we used a spermicidal condom and Super careful. We know the proper way to use it and how to check for leaks and tears. Like do you think if I didn't get the pill, would the condom still prevent 98% of pregnancies?
Also my boyfriend mentioned the morning after pill (plan b I think?) how effective is that? If I didn't get the pill and just used condom and then morning after pill if there was a leak, would that be ok?
1 more question- could I get pregnant if we used a condom but the condom doesn't break, is there a chance of pregnancy?
Oh and I prefer not to use any other female protection method. I don't want to use a cup or anything.
Amy more advice or tips? Thanks!! (link)
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Ok your 18
you could get on the pill, or shot by yourself at your doctors office they cant by law tell your mom because your 18!!
the pill is easily forgotten thats why for awhile i was on the shot however now i have the IUD because i had a child already..
Condoms do work if used properly, if there was a leak u could go and get the morning after pill(it works!) at the pharmacy without any script... in an emergency situation but you cant take alot of those pills..
If you want to make sure you dont get pregnant birth control is the better option!
as long as the condom doesnt break and the penis is never inside without a condom theres really no way to get pregnant..
you can get pregnant off of pre cum so be careful!!
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