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So basically I hooked up with this guy the first time we hung out. He was someone I've always had my eye on but thought I would never be good enough for. So when he initiated that he wanted to hookup I had no hesitation to do it. I'm friends with alot of people that know him and say he's a really good guy and not a player or anything like that. We've talked only once since then (it's been about a month). But I'm feeling myself actually wanting to date him. I'll see him during spring break but I'm not really the kinda girl to ask a guy out. I know you can't make someone like you, but I don't want to be remembered as easy because i hooked up with him so fast. I don't think he wants anything serious but me neither. I just want to get to know him better. Like a date.. What should i do? (link)
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"but I don't want to be remembered as easy because i hooked up with him so fast"
Sorry, that ship sailed the night you slept with him. You can't erase a first impression. The only way to get to know him better now is to ask him out on a date and make up your mind that you aren't going to sleep with anyone unless you are in a committed, monogamous relationship first. Another hook-up only solidifies his idea of you as "easy". Sex is good for temporary attention, but long-term interest requires self-control.
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thanks but i didn't sleep with him, that's my fault tho probably should have made that more clear. but i can't just ask someone on a date..idk
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