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hey im 17 and a girl.. ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i love him with all my heart when im not with him i miss him so much he calls me every night and i can tell him everything
but when im with him we fight alot and that started about 7 months into our relationship. i hate how easy we get into fights and how aggitated i get around him but i love him so much i dont know what to do and im scared that we might be falling apart sorta.. when i talk to him about this he just says sorry and that we will fix everything but then it goes back to being bad again.. i dont know what to do please help. (link)
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I had two friends that were dating but they absolutely hated being around each other because they were never happy together. They broke up multiple times only to get back together until finally they realized they were just not happy together and they broke up and have not really talked since and both of them are so much better without each other. Not all relationships have to end up this way. Question things you fight about. You say he agitates you...why? Do you need to spend less time together? Do you need to take a break? You need some happiness in the relationship or there is no reason to be in it. Sometimes taking time for both of you to mature on your own makes a world of difference.
Also pick your battles. Not everything is such a big deal. If there is something that irritates you, think about if it really matters all that much.
Try not to get it to the point that my friends did but know that if it's not going to work you should end it sooner rather than later.
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yeah i often think about maybe taking a break but i just cant seen to do it because i know that i will miss him so much. i know we should probobly spend less time together too but i just hate not being with him.. thank you for the advice though. i will use it as much as i can.
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