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Hi.
I have this friend who I recently made up with. Now when we talk there are always awkward silences.
Why is this and how do I stop it.
Thanks :D (link)
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mostly likely you are still bothered by what happen you aren't completely over it. To stop this try finding the source of it. Why are you feeling awkward catch yourself in you thoughts when the awkward silence happens what are you thinking about are you replaying the events in your mind are you questioning things about your friend pay attention to the images that are popping into your mind during this awkward silence. once you do this you should be able to address the problem according. If you don't know how to address the problem once you know what is causing it I'll be glad to guide you further. Also awkwardness is a feeling you can fix the awkwardness that your feeling during this silence but there's no way of knowing if your friend is feeling awkward as well unless they tell you they are.
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