Q: So I've known this guy lets call him Matt ever since 6th grade. We weren't friends but we grew up together in the beginning. So we ended up being friends. And we actually started becoming friends when we were seniors in high school. It's kind of sad I know. Now that we graduated we have become closer friends and we go to the same college as well. But ever since that, when I got a boyfriend and he's just been acting like a smart ass. I didn't want to tell him because he has a big mouth and I only tell my girlfriends. He's not my best friend. And I don't talk about my personal life to him or at all about guys I like because me and Matt are just really good friends but we never talk about love. He's had a crush on me in high school. He even wanted to ask me out because he told me. But I get a lot of guys so he eventually gave up. I only like him as a friend though and nothing else. He has feelings for me but I don't have feelings for him. He's never really dated anyone he's been single for many years. I've actually been in a lot of relationships. But one time when it was me and my boyfriend's anniversary. My car battery died. And my boyfriend didn't know how to fix it. So I called Matt over to help since he's really good with cars. And nothing went wrong after that. I didn't notice anything wrong. But he sent a really rude comment on facebook when I got home about my boyfriend. It really pissed me off and I said STOP IT. And he didn't so I deleted him on facebook and I was really really mad. Because that was just really immature and rude to say. Then he talked to one of my girlfriends about it. And he's like I don't know if I want to be friends with her anymore. I thought Matt was joking because he's needy and he talks to me all the time I didn't know how he could live without me and we've known each other for so long.
Then it finally happens he doesn't talk to me for 4 months!!!!!!!!!! I don't know why???? I was really shocked. And I really missed him as a friend. I was just really mad too. I missed having him in my life because he would always annoy me through texting and talk to me a lot I wasn't used to him not talking to me everyday. Then today he sends me a message on facebook after 4 months and says like "I dont know if I'll give you a third chance in being your friend but this is it...and whats up." He said it in a weird way.
Can someone help? I really only like him as a friend. But I don't know why he ignored me for 4 months!!!! And then embarassed me on facebook? And then talked to my girlfriend about me. And he still talked to my girlfriend and not me. What's going on?
