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Hi, guys and gals!
Bottom line: I have a new neighbor. He goes to the same church as me as well, and though I have not met him -- my aunt/uncle, and neighbor (she owns the house he moved into, which is right behind her house) know him very well and he is very sweet, good looking, etc. I could tell that from a far at church, however, I haven't gotten to introduce myself yet.
I am wondering, considering he is 33 and I am turning 19, is that a big deal? He is the marrying type, very clean cut and so on. I am not for partying and all of that, so that wouldn't be a problem. But still, do you think this age difference will make a difference?
Thanks!
Ashley- P.S. ANY help is appreciated. (link)
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Its always going to be an issue. The key is, will it be a big issue or a small issue.There is a lot of life experience in between 19 and 33 that can shape a person, so that puts you two further apart mentally. But that doesn't mean its out of the question. I guess you'll never really know unless you find out for yourself, so find a way to introduce yourself and see what happens from there. But don't be hurt if it turns out he can't see past your age. That's normal too. Good luck.
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Thank you! I appreciate your advice. I have always been very mature for my age, that will work to my advantage. However, I understand it still may be an issue if just for the number. Thanks again!
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