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Hey guys. I'm just a girl going through the transition of a teenager to an adult and all that it entails.
I've had a colourful life with many a lesson learned and much to offer. Whether you want advice, support or just a chat then all you gotta do is reach out.
I'm honest, whether it hurts or not, but i'm fair; open minded and philosophical, a little crazy yet very logical, at times rather controversial.
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So, my boyfriend & I broke up in August. We'd been dating for 11 months. Hes a junior, Im a freshman. We were in love, but i guess i got too clingy or something and he just didnt feel the same love as before. Its now February, and for about a month I've been talking to this senior. He's super nice, but I think he still likes this chick he had a thing with a few months ago. I dunno how she feels about him but whatever. So yeah I kinda like this senior. DONT tell me Im too young, because at my school this happens all the time. My ex and I still talk, but he's such a flirt sometimes I dont know if its genuine. Recently he seems to like talking to me again. Obviously I still have feelings for him, I always will. But I kinda do wanna give this senior thing a try, & he's also nice and we have things in common already. Even after typing this all out, I'm thinking to give the senior thing a go, but I'd like a little bit more experienced advice please. Thanks very much! :)
Your relationship with your ex ended for a reason. Moving onto another guy doesnt make what you had with your ex any less meaningful nor does it erase your past with him. And feelings dont just go away overnight. But you owe it to yourself to be happy.
Dont think about the future or a commitment with him. Keep things light hearted, no pressure, and invite him out for a drink. You can both see where this goes.
You can still be friends with your ex whether things work out with this senior or not and you'll soon know if the relationship progresses whether or not hes still into his ex.
(Rating: 4) Thank you much! :)