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I went thru a bad thing with this guy "J." It took me a year to get over it. I stopped dating and looking for guys for 1 year 6 months. Mostly because I found that I never could like anyone in that way. Until I met "T." It was pretty much an instant thing we started talking in class laughing mostly. He makes me laugh. He has a girlfriend. They've been together almost 2 years. He's also a flirt. He's probably a player too. I don't know. I know he's never cheated on his girlfriend, just flirting. I know he likes me. I really like him. Sometimes we text a lot sometimes we don't. Right now he pisses me off because I don't know if he's playing me but when were together its diffrent. I can help but smile. He's beautiful to me. Maybe not to other girls but to me. I don't know what to do. Like he doesn't let me close to him like emotionaly. He does want physical but its hard to talk to him about us because I don't want him to know I'm so in to him if he's playing me. Ill play right into the game I don't wanna play. Like yesterday he texted me randomly and just said am I Hot? I said he was cute. He said why am I not Hot? Well he is but I wasn't gonna tell him that. So I said why does it matter he just said he just wanted to know. I said sure you are. He said that wasn't an answer. Why ami not hot. I said i dont know I can't think of any real reason your not. He said ok. I said what was the point of that. He didn't answer. He does that a lot when he doesn't want me to know something I guess. Today he texted me and said he was in the hospital. That he flipped his fourwheeler. Well naturally I freaked. I said What?! What'd you Hurt? He said I think I broke a rib. I said oh. Dang freak me out. He said what'd you think happened. I said I don't know I figured you'd really got hurt. He said a broken rib can puncture a lung and I could die I said yeah I know. He said exactly and I said. Okay. Bye. I realized exactly how freaked id gotten over him and id realized how close id let him get to me. Well he said whatever your such an a** I said want me to worry bout U? He said your an a** I get hurt and all you say is bye. I said sorry you got hurt he said whatever go do what u gotta do. I said I'm not doing anything. No answer. Soi sent him another saying I wasn't trying to b an a** I figured you'd be busy. No answer. I texted him again a couple hours later and said you alright and no answer. I guess he's mad. What do I do about that and what should I do about the whole situation. I don't want to get played. I don't want to get hurt. He has so much power ovr me and I absolutely hate it. I've never been so powerless. I'm a very strong person normally. Please and thanks for helping I'm 16 & he's 17 if that matters.

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