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Hello, stranger reading my page.
I don't get on here that much, mostly when I need advice, and then I scroll through and come across other good questions.
I'm 19. Trying to get into nursing school.
I live with my boyfriend. I love animals.
I have a 55 gallon saltwater aquarium.
E-mail: midnightxxheart07@hotmail.com
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Location: Indiana
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It all started in December of 2010...I was 14 years old and I had a bestfriend named Hollie.I found out about this guy who gave tattoos at my school. Her and I got a tattoo and i got 2. Music notes behind my ear and a star&moon on my wrist. My parents found out about it and immediately i lied. but eventually got found out. I turned 15 & a couple of months later, I was still with hollie and now i was hanging out with erik we smoked weed and i stole alcoholfrom my dad to get some weed. Was found out and never able to hangout with Hollie again.I called suicide hotline and lied to the person on there and cps came to my school.Meanless to say, i got found out and in trouble. Then i took my sisters car out&crashed the bumper into a tree.My parents were out of town. After a while of trying to gain trust back&moving schools,It was now Oct. and I had a new friend named Maddie.Last weekend was the 3rd time we smoked weed.My parents were out of town again.Saturday morning i was supposed 2 go 2 my 7th laser removal of my tattoo(i didnt go but told my parents i did)&I had a job to go to on sunday night as well& told my sister id be home at 5pm. We smoked again sun morning.I fell asleep & maddie woke me up at 7pm. my cell was under a bunch of things and i couldnt hear it. I saw 17 missed calls 7 voice mails and i immediately called my sister. cops were looking for me and was introuble again. My parents came home the next day from their trip& was yelled at. No trust, respect, love, phone, computer. nothing. Im trying to gain their everything back. Not trying to speed up the process and a accepting my punishment as this is the 2nd time this has been done. I feel like once i do something good something else i did comes back and kicks me in the butt. Just asking what else i shoulddo and what i should feel.thanks. (link)
you sound just like me when i was your age. I got in alot of trouble too but eventually i got sick of always being grounded, so i got my act together. im so much happier now that im not always kicked out of school and grounded. its going to take some time, and i know how bad it sucks but your parents will eventually trust you again. if theyre like mine then they will always be cautious of what your doing but you will have much more freedom. once they start to trust you aggain dont lie to them because if you get caught youll be taking three steps forward and two steps back. for now, dont complainn about not having all your stuff just do what your told and make good grades and dont argue and everything will work itself out. good luck


Rating: 5
Thank you, this really helps.
I hope it turns out for the best, and im sure it will.




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