I'm not a expert or have a degree in Psychology, but I've been known to give good advice and have a bit of a nac for giving advice....
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My boyfriend lives with his mom in a basement because his dad was really mean to him and so they moved away from him. His dad lives in Florida and they live in virginia. His dad never talks to him like once on the phone every 3 months, and is very mean to him and calls him ugly and that he has no purpose in life and his father said the world would be a better place without him. It's really mean and Im always there for him and this christmas he gave his dad a christmas card. And his dad didn't even give him anything. He emailed the mom and said some really mean things that he was so grateful some other person gave him a christmas card and he didn't even mention my boyfriends card. He made fun of them and it was really mean. I don't remember it because i didn't read it. But the mom told me about it last night. I feel really bad for him. How can I help him and what should I tell my boyfriend? his mom and the man are still not divorced and she's going to divorce him sometime soon. He doesn't have a dad and his dad makes him feel terrible please help him.... :( (link)
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Well, his dad sounds like a dead beat dad... Tell him to disown his dad, its hard, I bet, but for a father to put his son down so badly, means his dad doesn't like himself, cares about no one other then his self and needs to be disown by his son... If you have a father and your boyfriend and you are in a serous relationship, maybe your father can be some what of a dad to him and if he's ever going to feel better about himself and have a better life, then he needs to let his father go, cause his father isn't worth it, have your boyfriend, maybe write his father or tell his father on the phone that he's done with him and tired of his criticism and don't care what he says anymore.... But little steps from your part will help him, he has to do it himself or he'll never feel good about himself....
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I agree with your advice 100% thank you so much
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