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Well I'm a 18 year old girl, and for awhile now I've noticed that everytime I see a pregnant woman I get very fascinated with her figure. I'm not really sure what my sexuality is, I can get turned by men and women...even trannies. Just the thought of getting close to someone as a very good friend and then falling in love, I guess is a bit of a turn on too. During my freshman year I was experiencing health issues, that 'caused me to go to night school along with other students such as, pregnant teens. I was so amazed and wanted to rub their bellys at all time...lmao
I became good friends with this one girl who was pregnant, it started off awkwardly since I was so very turned on by her overall physical look. Huge potbelly, and she was very thin and tall...like a lamp....with a basketball glued to it. LOL"
I've always been blunt about things, so naturally I told her she looked beautiful pregnant and I'd pay massive amounts of money just to bathe her and her belly...Yeah, I'm a bit of a creep. But she laughed and said she wasn't a lesbian. Hah, still didn't stop me from telling her how she turned me on, and how I'd um...yeah. Anyways, the year went by and we got very close, she said oddly enough she never saw herself with another woman, she admitted to have fallen for me at some point. I was so amazed...and happy, lmfao (;
We dated for a year, but then she moved :( and since we were both only 15, we couldn't do much about it. These past years, people keep telling me I act like a guy. And women keep falling for me, which is weird...and men keep saying my boyish ways turn them on...I'm not sure what my question is. I sortah lost it...nice, but yeah. What might be the reason for this? Someone told me maybe I had a higher testosterone level than most woman...I'm very girly looking, not butch or lesbian looking at all, haha. I'm always attracted to older looking men, and younger looking girls, not like 12 year olds though. Sheesh, I like a full set of breast, lol.
Anyway, I guess my question is basically.
1. Why am I so attracted to a pregnant woman's body?
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2.Am I just a freak? (link)
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You're not a freak. But I don't believe that some people are just "kinky"... every fetish and fantasy serves to fill a need in a person's life. Sexuality issues aside, I feel like part of your attraction to the pregnant form may have something to do with the image of motherhood, and some needs (unmet or otherwise) that are invoked in you when you see that. All that stuff gets tangled up in our hormones and sexuality and that's when it becomes a sexual issue, even though its not necessarily how it starts out. That being said, I'm not sure I have an answer about what to do about it, or even if anything NEEDS to be done. But I do know it is something you should explore more (like through talking to a confidant or therapist). When you get to the roots of it you'll be able to at least feel clear about where you stand and who you are and what you like and why.
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Hm, you maybe right about that...and I might. Thanks.
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