E-mail: alexismeverett@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 17
Member Since: October 2, 2010
Answers: 20
Last Update: November 2, 2010
Visitors: 1623
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I am 19 years old. My husband is 23. We have 3 children. The problem is we fight all the time. If i try and talk to him about stuff we just stop talking he wont say anything to me and he says it is because he doesnt want to argue. At night he ignores when the kids get up so that i always am the one the get up with them even if i have the flu or something i have something wrong with my stumoch and i have to have an ultra sound done he told me i am not going if it is going to take a long time because im not going to sit there and wait. he doesnt work when or if i get him a job he works for like a week then quits I feel like he hates me it bothers me he hardly showers he doesnt brush his teeth or wear deodarant but i love him. Is this a normal marriage or am i just pretending its normal. (link)
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You need to make him step up or leave because this man is not good enough for you. If he loves you he should take care of you when you're sick and take turns with you when it comes to the kids. Give him an ultimatum, if he doesn't try harder, then you are taking the kids and spending some time away from him. It seems like he is too immature to be married with 3 children, and you are young and still have your life ahead of you, you don't want him holding you back with his negativity. You don't deserve to be with someone who doesn't make you feel loved, you shouldn't have to do everything while he doesn't even try. You need to confront him about it and don't take any of his crap, don't let him interrupt you and shrug you off. Tell him that he needs to get a job, take care of his kids, and get himself a shower. This is not fair to you and you can't take it, show him who's boss. Good luck!
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thank you i left once i went like 13 hours away for like 2 weeks and it was okay for like a week once i got back he wanted to change then went back to normal
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