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Q: So theres this guy i REALLY like. My best friend likes him 2. So he asked me out i said yes. My best friend started acting weird. I know shes mad but I told her id rather be her friend then this guys girlfriend. She told me she didnt want me to break up with him so i didnt. I feel really guilty though and she called me a backstabbing friend. What do i do????
Well.. the thing is.. she probably feels that you "stole" this guy from her. I'm not saying you did, but that's just probably how she feels. try to imagine it, from her point of view.

It probably would have been a better idea to ask her if it was okay with her if you went out with him, before you actually said yes to him. You could tell her that you should have done that, or something, and it may help a bit.

If she still seems mad, you should just talk to her again (i know you said you did before but just try it again) , and just be like honestly I can tell your mad about this whole thing, and if it's really going to be a problem i'll break up with him, because my friendship with you is way more important, or something like that. ya know?

good luck with everything!

I talked to her and she said she wasnt mad at me anymore, thnx!!!

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