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I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

My boyfriend and I are sexually active and we both like sex a lot haha but I'm kind of into experimenting. He's just happy with whatever I guess, because we talk and are very open about stuff, but he doesn't really have any things he wants to try. Like when I asked him, he said "I love sex already, it couldn't be any better". But the thing is, I kind of want to have rough sex...I'm not sure why but I think that would be a major turn on for me. But I don't really know how to explain to him what I want...like if I said "I want rough sex" he'd probably ask me what exactly I meant by that and I don't really know what to say haha. So basically, how should I explain this to him? And also, if you're a guy, would it be a turn on for you? I know everyone's different but I'd like some other people's opinions :) thanks!

You don't have to explain it to him, When your having sex it doesn't have to be just slow or rough, it can start slow and then get harder and rougher.

While your making love, just keep moaning so he knows your enjoying it, and through the moans just whisper to him "harder, faster..." and pull him close until it feels right.

Then after, while you are still cuddled up in bed, tell him your really liked him new technique and you'd like to try that again.

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(Rating: 5) Ok I'll try that :) thanks!
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