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okay well im 17 female and my ex is 15 male. (just putting it out there) laugh out loud bt anyways so me and him went out in like march bt it was kind of an on and off relationship like we kept breaking up for no reason some of his reasons were really dumb like one time he broke up with me because i wouldnt have sex with him what a dumb reason like omg ! bt anyways before skool started i promised myself that i wouldnt like him anymore and that i wouldnt let my feelings for him come bak. bt on the first day of skool when i went into skool i saw him and my feelings came bak ! is it bad to have these feelings ? and i still think he has feelings for me too bt im nt sure and i kinda kissed him today bt he kissed me well we bascilly kissed each other and i really liked it !!! i keep thinking about it what do i do?? i know that if we do end up going bak out that he will hurt me again or want me to have sex with him and i dnt want to.. im nt ready yet bt i really LOVE him

He sounds like a butterfly. You don't want to be with a butterfly. They land on all the flowers and want to fly freely and carelessly; A guy on all the girls is not someone to get serious with. I had that experience myself. If you are sure you feel in love with him, let him go. Don't be an option to him. Never do that. If you want him to see you as a serious relationship for him, let him come to you. Even if you have to stop talking to him. Do what you need to do throughout the day, and act like you're not worried about him or anything. Make yourself valuable. You should always keep a second you, that is strong enough to realize that someone won't be taking up space in your head anymore. Friends with benefits means I like your body and it makes me feel good, but I don't like you as a person. And a word to wrap all that together is: LUST. So please, don't ever make yourself an option. If you don't, that tells him, hey, I am someone who's worth all the trouble.

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(Rating: 5) that was the greatest advice i have ever gotten in my life !!! =D aww thankss !
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