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I AM 23 YEARS OLD. MANY PEOPLE COME TO ME FOR ADVICE. I GUESS U CAN SAY I AM WELL TRUSTED.

I AM IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM "PERFECT"... TRUST, WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES BUT I BELIEVE EVERYTHING IS FIXABLE.

I DON'T BELIEVE THERE IS A SUCH THING AS A STUPID QUESTION, BUT...

YOU GIVE ME BULLSHIT, I WILL THROW IT BACK AT YOU.

IF YOU HAVE GENUINE CONCERN, YOU WILL GET AN HONEST AND WELL THOUGHT ANSWER.

IT DOESNT GET ANY REALER THAN THIS!!

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so this guy (justin) and I were together for about a year. we were each other's first love. its been about a year or more that we haven't talked. I went to a party and ended up meeting one of his close friends(josh). Josh ends up wanting to hang out the next weekend, and tells me that Justin wants to come with his girl friend. Its really hard to get over your first love, and i still love justin. I want to go and hang out because it would be fun, but i'm really nervous because i might get a little jealous of the girl...but i don't really know what to do. what do you guys think about the situation? thanks for your feedback

You should not date you exes friend. There will always be bumping of heads with you and your ex, therefore always uncomfortable moments. This can cause trust issues between you and Josh and it is just not a good out look. You just admitted you still love Justin, so youre asking for trouble if you decide to date Josh. Don't test yourself, and put yourself in uncomfortable situations.

And if you are thinking of getting Justin back, I dont think that is a good idea either, Justin will never trust if you were thinking about dating his friend.

you know where you're heart is, work on that first and when you are really over Justin and ready to date again, find someone wayyyyyy out of his circle.

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(Rating: 5) oh my gosh lol..you are so right. That would just make me look so bad. Josh has been calling like every night since last week, and each time he called I would always tell him I would call him back. And he ended up asking me if he is annoying and I told him not at all. Now I think it has really gotten into him that he probably is so he hasn't called me for like two days. So i think its good that this is happening because its helping my case of being trustworthy. I think the best thing for me to do is maybe just hang out with them but just be friends. And let Josh know that I see him more like a friend. but thank you so much for your advice lol..there is no way i'm going to let things get too far with him...like I have kind of already been blocking him out in a way. Especially when he asked me if i would tell him what I was wearing!!!!ahh.......
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