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I have a friend who is a girl and shes 17. She was dating a guy that is 30. He has tatoos all over his body; he was in the pen for 10 years, and he does cocaine, and sells drugs. They were together for a year on 9/1, but they broke up last friday because he got mad at her for not takin him to west nashville to pick up some drugs, (he was already messed up on coke) and he started yelling at her, telling her he was done with her skanky ass, and hes got plenty more dimes than just her, and she was a bitch, and started callin her dead mom a bitch too. So she said some mean things while she was crying. She took him to his moms house to drop him off, and he was acting like he wass going to hit her, and he kept threating her to take him up the street, so he could get a ride to west nashville. She didn't want to do it, so he spit in her face! Litterally, a loogie in her face! I got pissed off, and I tried biting my tongue, but when he did that, I couldnt take it anymore.
Anyways. They are supposively still broken up, but I feel as if shes lying to me. What can I do, to make her realize she doesn't need a piece of trash like him? She's young and truely beautiful, and I dont understand what I can do to knock some since into her. Please help me, before she ruins her life, even more than she has.
*P.s whenever she asks me for advice, or tells me something about him, I'll tell her the truth, and than she makes up excuses.
For example: Her: "Kaci, nick gets mad at me when I dont want to have sex with him."
Me:"Well stephanie, than maybe that shows you right there what he really wants from you? I dont think you should be with a guy who gets mad over that"
Her: "No kaci, he doesnt get mad when i wont have sex with him, he just thanks i aint attracted to him like that"
Seee? Thats what Im talking about. Please help me. (link)
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hi hun,
wow it seems like this guy is a right jerk, he definetly isn'r right for her i think you need to have a proper girl tak with her remind her of all his bad quality's and keep bringing up the age difference i know this seems like she will get mad at you but trust me tough love is what works keep on reminding her if she talks about him all the horrible stuff hes said and for the meanwhile keep her mind of things with other things good luck babe
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Thank you so much. I've been trying my best to remind her of how she deserves better. She said if she isn't with him, than she's never going to be with anyone. I told her that was a lie, because she's only 17, she will find someone a lot better who would NEVER imagine talking to her in that way, or spit on her. It juat aggervates me. No matter how much I talk to her about it, it does NO good. Shes constantly making up excuses to make it seem like my advice isn't accurate. I have brought up the age difference many times before. She always says "Kaci it doesn't matter, I'm going to be 18 in November anyways." she's blindd.
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