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Q: I am a 26 year old black male and I've been married for almost 2 years. My wife has 3 kids. I love our children but I don't have any biological children and we can't have kids together because she has had an hysterectomy. I take care of my house hole, wife and kids. My wife is a stay home mom. She gets every thing she wants and need. All I want is a biological child. We can't afford a surrogate mother and last night she told me that I can sleep with another woman so I can have a child. What should I do and where can I find a woman just for that reason?
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I have to say that I agree with Witty.
Look, if you want to figure out a way to screw up a good relationship with your wife, just continue along this path. You will find yourself down the road divorced, paying your EX-wife child support, and NOT seeing the children she currently has, and you haven't even given thought to the fact that your wife may well resent the child for this.
There's a lot more to being a man and a father than donating the sperm. You will lose your wife's respect and eventually the respect of the child if all of this goes south, the way I suspect it will. And somewhere in there, you will also lose self respect.
Play the hand you were dealt. You married your wife knowing that she couldn't have more children. THAT was the time to think about your wants and needs, BEFORE you got married. I understand that people change, but you are really being selfish.
I can assure you that your wife has offered this 'gift' to you because she feels guilty about not being able to provide you with a child of your very own. Don't take advantage of that.
If you really want a child of your own, wait until you can afford the surrogate. PERIOD. Anything else is wrong.
Best wishes,
Jada
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Thanks you for your advice. My wife and I dated for one year, broke up one year and on the same day we got back together we eloped we didn't think it though. I never ask her for this and I have never cheated on my wife. In the middle of the night wile she was sleeping I started to cry because of how I felt about a biological child and she heard me crying. Then she said to do that. I do believe she feels guilty about not being able to provide me with a child. Your right waiting is best.
Thank you1
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Southern girl...loves family, Rotties, beaches, mountains, and being outside!
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