My name's Erica, I'm 16 years old. I may seem young but I've experienced a lot more than you'd think. I joined this site because my family and friends always end up coming to me for help on various subjects, whether its just be help on homework or help on relationships I always seem to know exactly what to say or do, and they always end up thanking me graciously. I hope everyone here has a question to ask me, and I'd be really glad to help anyone out who needs it!
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alright i am a 16 year old girl turning 17 next month going into my senior year, i feel like everyone in my grade has had sex, i feel a lot of girls feel so nonchalant about it all. I have had a boyfriend and i personally don't think i am ugly, i have never had sex before and i haven't met the right guy i feel i could do that with but i feel kind of insecure i feel that i should of had sex already considering im almost going to college i feel kind of like a loser i don't know i just wanna hear your thoughts on this & what i should do? please no hateful comments :) (link)
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I'm in the same boat as you. Trust me, if you're not comfortable with having sex just yet. DON'T DO IT. I'm 16 and I'm going to be a junior, but most of my friends are younger than me and have had sex already. Personally I feel they've made a huge mistake. I'm waiting until I meet the right guy, and have been dating him for a while. I don't think it's worth throwing away your virginity for some guy you're going to talk to for a few months, have sex and then don't talk at all.
Sometimes I feel like I should've had sex already too, just because everyone else has. I know I'm not ugly, I've had boyfriends, but it just makes me feel kinda lame and out of the loop. But actually in reality, I'm proud to say I'm a virgin. And you should be too! There's not reason for you to lose your virginity just yet. And you still have many years ahead of you to worry about having sex. Right now you should be focused on bigger things in your future, not just who's going to be entering your body.
Just stay strong and do what YOU want to do. Don't let anyone influence you otherwise. It's your life, live it to the fullest, but do what you want to do, not what everyone else is doing. Hope this helped ! Have fun :)
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