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So I'm a fourteen year old female and, as you can tell, I want to stretch my ears. I am a good student getting mostly A's, I am responsible, and, for the most part, mature for my age. I brought up the subject with my parents and they screamed at me to the point where I just left and cried. I can't explain to them why I like them without them yelling at me. I understand that they are concerned that it would be hard to find a job. It is pretty clear that their opinion won't change and I was thinking maybe just doing it on my own. I've researched the topic a lot.
I got thinking why not do it now? I like them and I want them so what's stopping me? My parents.. but why should they stop me from what I want to do with my body? As a teenager I want to make my years rememberable and it just makes sense to me. I can buy tapers on my own and slowly stretch them. They won't notice up to a certain point anyways..
No hate, please. And just tell me what you think if you have them done.. Should I just go for it or wait until I'm 18. Thank you.
I was also thinking of writing a paper on it and giving it to my parents since they won't listen to me maybe they will understand better even though they will probably still say no.
I think I will try this before I stretch my ears myself. (link)
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Okay, first things first, your 14 years old, you cant really do anything with your ears unless they approve. But they have fake gauges that you can use. Its just an earring that looks like a gauge. They also have magnetic ones u can use as well.
Those would probably be your best bet, try checking out Hot Topic!
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Thank you. I already have fake ones, though.
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