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20F.

So before things start getting all hot and heavy with a guy, I'd thought I'd be nice and warn them that I'm a virgin. Well ..no guy ever believes me! They're all like ..yeah right your lying! I don't believe that one bit.

It's not like I come off as a slut, I carry myself well but I think it's because how I look. I'm a pretty girl, I know guys are interested in me which probably doesn't do me well. I don't know how to feel about this, should I be pissed that no guy believes I'm a virgin? I don't know what to do about the situation I guess.

Don't let it bring you down. :) I mean, for women, guys most of the time don't know when to say the right thing.

As bad as it may sound, sadly...it's not unusual for the guy to be shocked or in disbelief. Nowadays, young groups are very involved in sexual activity and the majority of females are losing their Virginity by at least the age of 15 or maybe even sooner.

So yes, it should be considered a possibility for a man to blurt out something like that.

But don't be ashamed of your Virginity though...

Girl, you come down like an angel and then tell these guys, "I'm a Virgin," and that's something most women of your age can't do...without lying about it!

So you got the guy feeling like he won the lottery. Pretty and a Virgin? I won a million dollars? See how it's pretty heavy. Ofcourse, it's going to take the guy sometime to process. And while he's processing, he'll blurt out something like what you had stated. They'll be like "Hell, no! This ins't real!" Cuz what are the chances of that happening to them right...probably once in their life time. And guess what...You are one of those chances.

So next time you tell someone that you're a Virgin and they don't believe you, don't take it the wrong way. Actually, feel proud about it and tell him(in a playful, joking tone) "I know that it's hard for you to believe that I'm a walking miracle :P but if your not gonna take me seriously, then I'm just gonna give my goods to someone who deserves them." :P

Let's see what they have to say about that :)

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