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Hello my names Lili. I am 20. I am college student. I honestly love people. I am a communications major. I am the go to girl for advice among my friends. You need help ask me and I will do my best to give you advice. We all need advice every once in a while. My goal is that the advice I give you will help you with whatever problem you have. I cant guarantee a perfect answer. But I can guarantee that I will try to help you.
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Age: 20
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You can love in a lot of ways. you can be with someone so amazing and say you love them; the next, and scariest step, if youre serious enough, can be saying youre in love with them.

(lets make sure we know the difference between loving someone & being in love with someone. i always believed you can only be in love so many times.)

For example, my story.. i met this guy in the beginning of sophomore year. we began to talk but we didnt get close until early 2010. we were best friends for months & then he admitted to liking me. I began to like him back and weve been together officially for nearly two months.

when someone's your best friend, is it faster to fall in love? how do you know? what's the differnece between loving someone & being in love with them?

i know they say youll know when you know. but maybe there are some little factors that everybody catches on.

thank you!
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My idea of being in love is: You love the person unconditionally. You accept their flaws. You see the beauty in them that others don't see. You see the person as amazing, wonderful, or any of these adjectives. This is the person that makes your heart pound when see this special someone. You smile and laugh more, when your with this person. You see and view world differently. You see the beauty of the world around you. When you wake up the first person you think about is that special someone, and the last thing you think about when you go to bed. When you love someone, you cant picture a future without them in it. When something happens in your day, it is the first person you think about telling. The one you love is like your best friend, your confident. The one you are love with, you trust with all your heart.
That's how you tell when your in love.
I think since he is your best friend it can be faster to fall in love, but it is not always the case. It on depends. I think the difference between loving someone and being in love, is in my opinion, loving someone, can just be an idea. I think to me, it is liking the idea of loving someone. But to say you are in love with someone, I think there is more meaning behind it. It's hard to explain. To say you love someone sounds a lot different then saying your in love with someone. I think it has more meaning. :) I hope this helps


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thank you, i completely agree with what you said :)




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