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18f. This may be long, but bare with me! I am quite confused..
So last friday me and a friend were on a walk since we were at her parents friends house and we were bored. Well we walk past this kids house who has a pool and there were a bunch of hot guys out there and we werent familiar with the area so i asked them if they knew where this park we were looking for was. One of the guys, brad, instantly started talking to me and him and this other kid ben were flirting with me hardcore. Well i find out that my friend tried talking to brad on facebook then creepily got his number and texted him (so embarassed about that) and brad recognized my friend and said something. Well then we left and i asked my friend how she knew him, and then thats when she told me all that. So then about 30min after we leave, she texts brad saying something like: i don't want to bug you but i don't want you or your friends to think i'm a creep, i just thought you were hot. well then he replies haha no its okay, but your friend was sexy! i was like oh really he thinks that? :) so then she texts him a lil more and then he had to go but he was like make sure linds (me) texts me, i better get a text from her! so later that night i text him saying hey its linds:) and he says whats up babe? and then i reply, and then no response from him?? well then the next night he ends up texting my friend asking if me and her were partying that night and my friend said no because she was at her cabin.
Well i'm a little upset, i am a confused as to why he texted her when he was pretty creeped out by her, and he was the one bugging her to have me text him?? And we all have mutual friends, so it's not like hes just a random guy i know nothing about. But now my friend feels as though she can rub it in my face that he texted her, and i'm just like okaaay?? I don't know whats up with brad ..he was so into me saying i was sexy, he told my friend to have me text him ..then i text him and he stops talking? then he texts my friend, not me, the next night asking if we were partying? I don't get it..
Hey,
going off of what I read, it doesn't seem like he has an interest in your friend. His intrest is in you! Between Facebook, meeting in person, and having her number, he had ample chances to try to hook up with her if he had wanted to, but he didn't. When you came into the picture, however, he was allllll about getting in touch with you, and having you come around. Even when he texted her about the party, he was curious to know if YOU were coming to the party with her. Your friend can't really rub a text in your face when he's made it clear that he wants to get to know you better, even though your friend would probably prefer it be her. As far as him not responding to your text that night, who knows... Phone's don't always act right, maybe he has other stuff going on outside of trying to talk to you, but that's another story. Situation at hand says, he definitely has an eye for you, so if that's what you wanted, you're in luck girl! Hope I helped =)
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thanks that makes me feel better :)
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