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Hello, I'm a girl who's pretty confused at the moment. See, I like relationships (hold on dude. That's not the problem... ^-^) but once I get into them I find myself craving more independence. I think half the reason I feel this way is because I'm attracted to guys who like to be close, ya know, the let's-just-sit-here-and-cuddle kind of guys. Once I get more serious with them, I start to feel claustrophobic. It would be simple if I could find a guy who doesn't squeeze me so tight to where I can't breathe and yet likes me enough to be there when it counts. It must be my fault (obviously :p) but what can I do to fix it?

Your advice would be much appreciated :)

wow... this is quite the situation you have here... well, I think you don't want to have anything too serious with guys right now maybe because you just don't want that type of commitment yet. You probably just like the thought of being loved and cared for by someone but at the same time you don't really want any strong attachment to the relationship because you are just not that type of person... you might just be looking for a very very good guy friend who you can have an OPEN-RELATIONSHIP with meaning you have a relationship but it is just not that serious to the point that you guys are always together and start feeling claustrophobic... you guys can take it easy go have your fun and not always be together but when you guys need each other, either of you can give each other a call and you will be there for each other no matter what.I think before you head into a relationship, you should let the person know just how you are and what it is exactly that you are looking for once in a relationship... if you dont want anything too serious but still want to be loved and cared for, let the person know... and when you need each other when it counts, agree to be there for each other no matter what. Know what rules you guys are going to have in an OPEN RELATIONSHIP so that no misunderstandings take place and no one gets hurt of course it is up to the both of you to ultimately respect each other, give each other your space, and at the same time love each other, care for one another and most of all respect each other. I hope the idea of having an open-relationship is a good idea for you I think this kind/type of relationship will work for you if you have not given it a try... it can be something beautiful if managed the proper way but love itself, is one of the most beautiful things a human being can experience you are lucky you have someone who really loves you so much if this is your case. But if you want, you can give this a try and if you have any question, let me know I will be glad to help you. I wish you the best! and take it easy no worries I am here to help you :)
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(Rating: 5) Thanks for your time. It was great advice...but I'm in a relationship right at this moment. I've been with him for about 3 months and he's a really good guy with little quirks that I find cute ( like the fact that he's always pointing out the irony in a situation :p). But he calls me alot, like 2-4 times daily. And, see, I love to just talk and learn more about somebody. It doesn't really matter what I'm learning about the person; I just like it. I know it's a little dumb... but anyways, I'll get into these deeper questions, asking what he wants in life, and he'll answer. Then he'll ask back. Now, if my answer doesn't match his entirely, he gets kinda weird and tries to push his opinion on me as the better one.

Thanks again for the advice. It really was good. Time for me to try to Figure the rest out.

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