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Ughh, whats the best way to get over someone. I can't take it anymore..
you're probably told this all the time, but time heals it :) i'm pretty sure everyone has been in a position like you, where they think they won't ever be able to get over their ex, but it happens eventually, and you'll feel ten times better than you did before.
the worst things to do:
- sit and think about your ex (what he's up to, asking his friends about him, looking at old pictures - you can do this but when your ready to!)
- try and win him back (will not always work)
- spy on him (some people do it!!)
best things to do:
- spend more time with your friends and family (they'll take your mind off your ex to a degree)
- meet new people (this is a great tip! it boosts your confidence and you're having fun at the same time)
- find a new hobby (sports, dancing, arts - whatever you want! it will take your mind off it)
personally I would just say to enjoy yourself... do whatever makes you feel good. I know that when I split up with my ex, going to the gym and getting fit really helped me because I met new people and gained confidence - although this doesn't always work for everyone! think of 5 things (or 3 whatever suits you) that you've always really wanted to do, such as visit somewhere you've always really wanted to go... it will make you so much happy when you have achieved your wishes! good luck and I hope I helped :)
(Rating: 5) This did help :). I'm always telling myself the same things but hearing it come from someone else helps a lot. Thank youuuu. :)