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So, I am 17f and I have never dated anyone. I feel that there are certain types of guys that I really just want to stay away from (liers, cheaters, players, guys that only want sex), basically all the kinds I know. I have met a guy that is sweet, kind, respectful, and loving towards me recently.. the only thing is, I have had a rough childhood (meaning I can take things to the heart, I am careful with who I chose as friends, and I can find it hard to open up to people sometimes), people have backstabbed/lyed to me, and my mom has been through two divorces. My question is how can I become closer to this guy without allowing myself to feel like I am holding back a little. He is understanding, loves me for who I am, and seems interested.. one time he asked if he could kiss me and I let him kiss me on the cheek, but I keep wondering if I should of kissed him on the lips or if that was holding back. I mean whats wrong with a kiss on the lips? I don't know.. do I hold back too much? What can I do to stop feeling like I do?
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Hi there ive been in the same position as you, all i can advice you as i am now 22 and looking back is, because of your childhood it seems to be worrying you but try to throw it out the window if it wasnt the best and start from fresh, the best thing to do is explain to him that you dont want to rush things but let hime know you are interested, by telling him and go for walks, watch movies, and from there see what happens.
I hope things work out for you. Eventally you will be able to trust him all in time
all the best
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