about

I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

I really need to get out of this relationship before I hurt my boyfriend and do somthing to him ill regret we don't even talk soo this is wierd for me how do I tell him its over but without beeing harsh
im a 13 year-old girl

If you two don't talk much then he may not even be upset if you break up, he may be feeling just a wierd about the relationship as you do.

Please don't do as the last person said, ie write him a note or get a friend to do it for you. I got my friend to break up with someone for me when i was your age (we didnt speak either cos i didnt like him that much) and it really hurt him.

So, ask to talk to him on his own, sit down and just tell him that you would like to just go (back) to being being friends again as you don't feel that the relationship between you is working and it just doesnt feel right.

That way, he knows it's the relationship thats not feeling right, and that it's nothing to do with him as a person.

good luck :-)

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(Rating: 5) thanks and i was not planning on doing what the other person said
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