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Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 20
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Last Update: September 16, 2012
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My mom hates my boyfriend. But it isnt the first time, she's literally hated every single person ive ever been friends with and or dated. She makes it completely obvious that she doesnt like him, and because im with him, she's horrible to me. She likes to call me names and refuses to help me in any way. Today is my 20th birthday and she told me she would take me out to dinner, and when my boyfriend was there she made a huge scene and refused to take us anywhere. It just hurts so badly because im one of the nicest people ever. For mothers day i took her out to eat twice, and im the only one who even remembered her birthday.
I dont care about not getting a dinner, i care about her ruining the only relationship i have right now that honestly makes me happy.
She kicked me out today and right now im sitting outside of her house at 10 at night, waiting for her to fall asleep so i can crawl in through the window.
What should i do!? Everytime i try talking to her she turns it into a huge scene and I just back down because i hate fighting. Please help me
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You need to sit your mom down for a talk. Start with this: "Mom, please sit down. We need to talk. We need to talk about *enters name* Before you interrupt, hear me out. I know you do not like my boyfriend. But he makes me happy. This is one of the relationships I'm in that honestly makes me happy. You dont have to like him, but you cant treat me like crap. You cant be horrible to me just becasue you dont like this guy I am dating. I am twenty. I am a grown up. I make my own decisons. I love you mom, I hate fighting with you, but we cant keep doing this. You are ruining our relationship."
Let her know how you feel.... You are a grownup, and she should respect your decisons you make, even if she may not agreee with them. She should not make a scene. And if she dosent see it that way, it's time even though it is sad, it's time to end relationship with her... at least temporily.
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