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Q: 16/f
My bf is so asking for it,I don't know what to do...Every time we're on a date we both get turned on like crazy and it's been like this for a while.We want to have sex soon and it's gonna be my first time,but I'm a bit scared.I told him that and he said he'll be gentle and careful with me...I really love this guy but I'm quite insecure and indecisive about this.Should I have sex with him if I feel like it?I know only I can decide when's the right time for me to do it.Still there are so many dilemmas,like,what if the condom breaks? that causes insecurity...what should I do? I really want him and can't hold back anymore.
if your having soo much doubt & fear then your definatly not ready. just give it time.. & not to be rude but if your bf is pressuring you to do it, then he's not worth giving into. the right guy will understand when your ready or not.

yeah,I guess I shouldn't rush it...no,he never pressured me.He said he'll wait till I'm ready.

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