hi
well i always wanted to do something like this, i might have a knack for it, might not!!! either way i will be honest and always try and do my best=)
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Occupation: student
Age: 20
Member Since: May 29, 2010
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My boyfriend says we have a normal relationship. I try to tell him it's not. He expects me to tell him everyone I pass in the hall way at work, what they say and send him pictures. If they come in my office he says they only made an excuse to come and see me that things should be controlled differently and men should not be able to just walk in my office. He takes these things out on me as well. Last Friday my boss called me in his office because he was about to leave for the day. When the boyfriend called I wasn't at my desk. he called and left vmails that were rude and ugly and when i called him back and explained he Said "you were in the office w/ 2 men?" "What else happened" Would you feel as if he is suggesting that something un professional could have happened by saying something like that? I'm at wits end and he seems to think he is doing no wrong. He says he has the right to know who I talk to and what is said and where I am and thinks if I have a problem w/ it then I have something to hide. (link)
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i agree these are warning signs of an abusive boyfriend but , then i asked myself if you are complaining about him you want him in your life.as women thats the hardest thing to do, letting go.
well i recommend you sit down and talk to your boyfriend about changes that you want to see, tell him you are not happy with the way he behaves.
this will help with your professional job, since you work with same people. give it time , its all easy to say dump him but , its hard. if he makes you happy, let him know, communication. if he doesn't like it give him a week or so to see if he will behave better. if not then its time to cut your losses and move on. your best days are ahead of you ! have fun
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Thank you very much! I am leaving him.
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